8 Unbelievable things you didn’t know about married life

Published 15/01/2015 by Jenni

Married life is not the happy ever after that many films make it out to be. If you ask any couple that has been married for 3 years or more, they’ll tell you that! This post will definitely open your eyes when it comes to what goes on behind closed doors in married life. Take a look…

1. Your Disagreements Won’t Disappear

Getting married will not make your disagreements disappear. In fact, it could make you disagree more. If you’re getting married to ‘fix’ your relationship, you’re already doomed. Your relationship should be in great condition before you make the serious decision to get married.

2. Your Relationship Will Probably Be Exactly the Same

Do you expect your relationship to get even better after marriage? Do you think things will change? They probably won’t. Your relationship will be exactly the same. The only difference will be that you now share a last name!

3. It Could Actually Get Worse

Yep, it’s true. Once you’ve sent out the invitations from Paper Themes and had your big day, you could run into problems. If you both aren’t prepared for what marriage is really all about, this could make your relationship worse. You need to know how to communicate properly, how to make up after a fight, and know that marriage is hard work.

4. Married Couples Report Communication as One of their Biggest Issues

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is a huge problem for married couples. You both need to be able to get your thoughts and feelings across to one another effectively without upset. You also need to resolve issues effectively. If you try to bring something up with your partner and they get on the defense, you’re both doing something wrong. You’ll never sort your problems out this way and they’ll only get larger.

5. You Might Have Less Sex

Some people think that marriage means sex on tap. This is not the case! You might have even less sex than you did before. On average, married couples only do it slightly more than once per week. You might even have dry spells where you don’t do it for a few weeks, or even a month or two. This is normal, as long as you’re both still being intimate in other ways.

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6. You Won’t Like Your Partner All the Time

Sometimes, you really won’t like your partner. You might even decide you don’t fancy them anymore. 5 minutes later, you might love them again. Marriage is a rollercoaster ride of emotion. Don’t expect to like everything about your partner all of the time.

7. You Might Fall Out of Love

You don’t always stay in love when you’re married. The feeling will often fade, but it’s what you’re left with that’s important. If you and your partner have a strong friendship/feeling of partnership, that’s what counts. That’s what will keep you together until you’re old and grey!

8. A Pregnant Wife Increases a Man’s Chance of Cheating

Sorry ladies, don’t mean to scare you. Apparently, a pregnant wife makes a man much more likely to cheat. In fact, a man is as likely to cheat on his wife as he is to experience a flight delay. Make sure you can trust your man!

What do you think? Leave a comment!

Alternative Things A Little Girl Can Take To Show And Tell

Published 25/04/2014 by Jenni

The primary school years are arguably the best time in anyone’s life. Young minds are functioning at full speed and soaking up information faster than a supercomputer. Innocent friendships are formed and the simple things in life, such as running around in an aimless attempt to burn off excess energy, are enjoyed.

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The friendships will often last a lifetime, and even if contact is lost, the names and faces of those companions will always be remembered.

Most of the days spent learning at school are exciting, and the children look forward to them once they have awoken properly in the mornings. It is a time when homework is a novelty too, and the children are eager to please their teacher with their best efforts. Show and tell is a great occasion where the kids all try to outdo each other, I know mine did. Settling on the right object was critical, as was learning a sentence or two to go with the display.

Here are a few suggestions that may help your daughter come to a decision when show and tell is only a couple of weeks away, and they are unable to make up their mind on what to take to school.

Pets
Pets are a standard show and tell subject. Though many children take them along, it doesn’t detract from the value of the subject. Children love to take their little friends to school, and other children love to see them. If the pet is unusual, it will attract more interest. Giant land snails (they aren’t that big really), or stick insects are unusual pets to take along and the other kids will be fascinated.

Artwork
Your daughter will get credit for effort if she makes her own piece of art and then explains it. It doesn’t need to be a masterpiece; art is all in the interpretation., right?

Model
With a couple of weeks notice, a little girl and her mum have plenty of time to build a model of some kind. Maybe a model Saturn 5 rocket would look great, and the story of how man first walked on the moon could accompany it. Alternatively, the story of how grandad won the war and a tank model will go down well with the rest of the class.

Book
A book is a very handy thing to take to show and tell, as long as the child has actually read it. Sit down with your daughter a couple of days before the event and help them to write a brief synopsis.

Photographs
Old photos are a great subject for show and tell. There is a huge range of possible subjects. Do you have photographs of your grandparents that you could find for them? Maybe one where one, or both, of them are in military uniform as it was taken during the war years. There may well be an old photograph of grandad with his tank; you know; the one he ran Adolf Hitler over with. Or perhaps you could pay a visit to the library. Many of them will have a collection of old newspapers where pictures are found, that show how the town used to look decades ago. Photocopy them. Children love local history.

One piece of advice I will give to all you young mums out there; get involved with, and enjoy, your child’s school work. They are only children for a brief time, and it is you that will miss out if you don’t. The young years are the best for building memories, so have fun.

Image Source Review

Published 25/03/2013 by Jenni

As Joe and I work on so many websites and projects together, we’re always on the lookout for high-quality stock imagery – sites like Pinterest, apps like Instagram, and Facebook’s EdgeRank algorithm all massively promote the use of amazing and creative photos, and the web has just seen an explosion of images in recent times. It’s definitely filtered down to websites, and we’ve found that clients are becoming increasingly picky when it comes to their online photos.

We quickly learned that you can’t cut corners when it comes to website imagery of any kind; there’s just no substititute for proper professional photos taken with high-end equipment and the best lighting, composition and post-processing. This is especially true as we tend to work with small businesses who want to use their website imagery for print purposes spanning everything from promotional booklets to magazine advertisements. They need high-quality, high-resolution photography that can easily be adapted to suit all their needs. At the end of the day, it’s essential for us (and them) to have a photo resource on hand that ticks every box.

This is where ImageSource.com comes in.

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One of the most common problems we found with other royalty free image websites was that they seem to make life as difficult as possible for the average buyer. The information you need is hidden away or non-existent, there’s no easy way to search for different filetypes, the photo previews are tiny, the prices are hidden, usage rights aren’t shown….I could go on and on about how frustrating it is. Refreshingly, we found that Image Source told us absolutely everything we needed to know about an image straight on the website.

Simply navigate to a particular image, and all the details are listed underneath (prices are to the right hand side). A novelty!

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The biggest advantage for us is that because they sell RF images that are fully released in low volumes, you don’t end up seeing their photos everywhere – they remain pretty exclusive. This is ideal if you’re working with clients or publications that want to stand out. They have a huge range of people-based images, and they’re all very natural looking – an essential, if, like us, you don’t have a whole fleet of models and a photography studio on hand. All images are fully model and property released for better security and to give you more control. You can even find stock video footage to complement your royalty free photos for the complete package – what’s not to like?

Another important benefit is that Image Source doesn’t just focus on one particular market. They specialise in Asian, European and American content, so if you have customers that have a wider global audience or focus on a particular area (for example, if you’re working on a website for an Italian restaurant, they have some stunning pictures of Italy), then you can find exactly what you need.

ImageSource.com is our go-to place for royalty free photos now, and you should definitely pay them a visit if your priority is high-quality professionally directed and edited photos. Check ‘em out and let us know what you think!